The best way I think they should deal with it is to tell someone. The person being abused and the abuser should go through counseling so they can open up and talk about their problems. In addition, it is up to the abuser to change their ways while going through counseling. If they don't change their ways, then i guess the only right thing to do is to punish them by sending them to prison if it gets to that point. However, if it's a family issue, maybe from going to counseling the counselor can recommend to the parents to give their child up for adoption. Parents are suppose to love, care and provide food for their child. If the parent can't do that, then maybe another family can.
Kids and teens deserve to be loved and respected. If they are being abused they shouldn't be afraid to tell someone. There will always be someone there for them who will understand what they are going through. Same goes for the abuser, if they are going to express their anger they shouldn't express it through abusing, they should express it in counseling by talking about their problems. If they keep it to themselves the problem may get worst. To me, i think the only way to deal with this situation is to go through counseling.
